I just noted a nice message by Simply D in our group Coffee with the Oracle. She stated she was intending to put some time into Area Light but had a lot on her plate at the moment. That's great and raises for me the question of whether or not I should respond. If I comment back to her acknowledging her intention, then I am creating a task for her to handle if she is following the conversation with autoforward to e-mail. That would put more on her plate, doesn't really add any value to her I think, and perhaps could cause her to decide not to follow the conversation with that feature. In my view, better to demonstrate some patience and not respond. This is part of the holonics concept of cooperation balanced with independance. I think Area Light can become more of a community of choice if people work together with all due consideration of eachother- that can include not sending qeue's where they are not needed, thereby keeping channels open and clear of static noise. On other networks, I see people "touching base" quite a lot. For me, a lot of that is unnecessary. Some people do it too much. Others might do better to drop a line at least once in a while. I'm pretty busy myself, so sometimes I look at the e-mail notices I get and consider closing the channel for the inundation or how to establish my proferences with the other party for a mutual satisfaction- namely iterating my own and assuring my needs do not call for too much assurance. Then there are those who are sending blind canvasses that really do not pertain to me. Those can turn me off a little in terms of my hope/ expectation for a quality interaction with that individual. The mass messages can really be a turn off and that is why I tend to avoid them. There's another network owner out there who sends a mass message nearly everyday and I'm about to block them. I've been testing my own tolerance of his correspondence and considering alternative solutions. Perhaps I could engage him to discuss it and work with him in a manner that actually could be mutual beneficial. I think that is a courtesy to allow some push without premature disconnection. The least I can do for his consideration in outreach is respond. Needless to say, the time I might reserve to correspond is tied up in reading and disregarding hhis frequent messages. So I'm still kind of undecided.
On Area Light, I'm going to be promoting Holonic Interaction. This is a skill I think we can build around the features of the technology. i know Ning puts some considerations into the effect of these features. You can see that in choices in options such as whether to follow a discussion or not. As a community, we might be more intelligent in our interaction by establishing some...understandings (maybe better term than rules). You want people to stay balanced with some openness while allowing them some peace and privacy.
One of the activities I have in mind for this is utilization of the blog feature. I'm going to be maintaining a blog called the Area Light End User Experience. this will be my online journal of interactions written to myself but open to the entire community as an audience. I'm also going to be demonstrating this concept as a suggestion for everyone to employ by way of having the same Area Light End User Experience blog employed by Area Light member Services as an entity. There's plenty to discuss regarding this. For today, I'll just say one idea at play here is I can remark on an encounter without engaging that member directly. If they care to look into my journal, they might be pleased to find themselves appreciated and might find themselves served assurances by this "agent" activity.
How intelligent this network could be if the users were all noting their thoughts and notes without reaching out to eachother each occassion. The natural tendancy is to want to put something out for reciprocation and to reciprocate on every opportunity. However, what we find is a lot of people being overwhelmed by the good networking intentions of others and essentially defeating the purpose. We can do better but I think this is going to imply the development of some skills. Whaqt we can do is create some activities that do in a sense take people through the motions of more intelligent interaction without necessarily covering all the supporting justifications.
Here on this discussion, we can really get into the underlying logic and theories for those who may be interested. Right now I'm going to move over to Holonic Advertising and Marketing discussion because their is a natural progression from this likely professional class action to the organizational level concepts we are developing.
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